The Season: 8-month program

Build a better version of yourself

Every month a new theme, new exercises and insights that strengthen your character and your contribution to the team.

MONTH1
Theme

Self-Knowledge & Identity

What you learn

Who are you as a player and as a person? You discover your core values, your strengths and what gives you energy. Self-knowledge is the foundation of everything that follows.

Science

Research by Deci and Ryan (1985) shows that insight into your own motivation, both intrinsic and extrinsic, is directly linked to perseverance and wellbeing in elite sport.

Exercises

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    My Three WordsChoose three words that best describe you as a teammate. Also ask three teammates to choose three words about you and compare.
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    Energy Giver vs Energy DrainerWrite down which moments in training give you energy and which cost you energy. Discuss with your coach.
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    Personal Values CompassRank 12 values (loyalty, courage, honesty...) from most to least important for you. Reflect: do you live by them?

“The most important thing is to try and inspire people so that they can be great in whatever they want to do.”

Kobe Bryant — 5x NBA Champion, Los Angeles Lakers
MONTH2
Theme

Pressure & Stress

What you learn

Pressure feels different for everyone. You learn to recognise how your body and mind respond to stress, and you discover concrete tools to stay calm and focused in difficult situations.

Science

Lazarus and Folkman (1984) describe two types of coping styles: problem-focused and emotion-focused. Athletes who master both strategies perform more consistently under pressure.

Exercises

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    Box Breathing4 counts inhale, 4 counts hold, 4 counts exhale, 4 counts wait. Practise before every training session for 2 minutes.
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    Stress JournalWrite for 5 minutes after every match: what did I feel, what did I think, and what did I do? Look for patterns over a month.
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    Worst Case Best CaseWrite down the worst that can happen and the best that can happen. Then write the most likely outcome.

“Pressure is a privilege — it only comes to those who earn it.”

Billie Jean King — 39x Grand Slam Champion
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MONTH3
Theme

My Role in the Team

What you learn

Every team needs different roles to function. You discover which role you currently play, which role you want to grow into, and how to fulfil that role as well as possible.

Science

Carron and Eys (2012) show that role clarity is one of the strongest predictors of both task motivation and social cohesion in sports teams.

Exercises

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    Role CompassExplore four roles: Leader, Engine, Thinker and Stable Force.
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    Role CircleEach player names one concrete contribution they bring to the team.
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    My Top 3 ContributionsWrite down three concrete things weekly that you contributed to the team.

“The strength of the team is each individual member. The strength of each member is the team.”

Phil Jackson — 11x NBA Championship coach
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MONTH4
Theme

Communication

What you learn

How you talk determines how you collaborate. You learn the difference between reacting and communicating, how to give feedback without damaging the atmosphere.

Science

Marshall Rosenberg developed Nonviolent Communication (NVC): compassionate communication that focuses on needs rather than blame.

Exercises

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    I MessagePractise with the model: “I see... I feel... I need... I ask you to...”
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    Feedback Round TrioIn groups of three: one gives feedback, one receives, one observes.
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    Difficult ConversationWrite down a conversation you have been putting off. Schedule it within 7 days.

“Communication is the most important skill any leader can possess.”

Doc Rivers — NBA Head Coach, Philadelphia 76ers
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MONTH5
Theme

Team First

What you learn

The step from “I” to “we” is the hardest in elite sport. You explore what it means to set aside personal interests and build a culture of trust.

Science

Amy Edmondson (Harvard, 1999) discovered that the best teams have the highest psychological safety: the conviction that you can make mistakes without being punished.

Exercises

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    Team ContractThe team sets up 5 behavioural rules that everyone upholds.
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    Asking for HelpOnce per training session ask a teammate for help with something specific.
  • Invisible ContributionAfter every match write down one teammate who did something nobody noticed but was essential.

“Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence win championships.”

Michael Jordan — 6x NBA Champion, Chicago Bulls
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MONTH6
Theme

Resilience & Growth Mindset

What you learn

How do you respond to setbacks, mistakes and defeat? You learn the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset.

Science

Carol Dweck (Stanford, 2006) proved that athletes with a growth mindset train harder, handle feedback better and enjoy their sport more over the long term.

Exercises

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    Rewrite the MistakeChange every sentence with “I can’t” to “I can’t yet”.
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    Progress ListKeep a monthly list of three things you can do better than last month.
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    Hardest MomentThink back on the hardest moment of this season. Write down what you learned.

“I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Michael Jordan — 6x NBA Champion, Chicago Bulls
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MONTH7
Theme

Leadership from Within

What you learn

Leadership is not about the captain’s armband. Every player can lead at every moment through their behaviour, attitude and words.

Science

Côté and Gilbert (2009) distinguish three types of leaders in sport: formal, informal and emotional. Informal leaders often determine more than the captain.

Exercises

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    Who Do I Follow?Write down which three teammates you follow most in behaviour — without them being captain.
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    The First VoicePractise being the first to say something positive during team meetings. Once a week, one concrete suggestion.
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    Mentor a Younger PlayerSpend 5 minutes each week teaching a younger player something — technical or mental.

“I like pressure. I think pressure is an amazing thing. It’s a privilege to be in pressure situations.”

LeBron James — 4x NBA Champion, Los Angeles Lakers
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MONTH8
Theme

Legacy & Next Step

What you learn

What do you want to leave behind in this team? You close the season with reflection, intentions for the future and a letter to yourself.

Science

Positive psychology (Seligman, 2011) describes the importance of meaning as one of the five pillars of wellbeing.

Exercises

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    Letter to MyselfWrite a letter to yourself for next season. The letter is kept sealed.
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    My Contribution This SeasonWrite down five concrete moments this season when you contributed something that made the team stronger.
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    Three IntentionsSet three concrete intentions for next season: one for yourself, one for the team, one for your coach.

“The strength of the team is each individual member. The strength of each member is the team.”

Phil Jackson — 11x NBA Champion Coach, Chicago Bulls & LA Lakers